Friendship Lesson's - My Mind Says

Friendships can Betray… Absolute Friendships can Betray Absolutely… ~George Bernard Shaw

To start with my article I would like to say that this article is based on True Events that happened in my life over some time…

During my college 3rd year, one of our lecturers used to give us plenty of notes to write and he doesn’t explain the subject at all… Where all my classmates used to hate that sir including me… He’s just an extension of a psychopath who used to punish students all the time be it any situation he’s in… I’m the class representative and all my classmates whom I consider as my friends told me to raise a complaint against the sir for not explaining to us the subject and instead of giving notes… Then I as an idiot who did not seek permission from our class in charge and directly went to our Assistant Director of the college and gave a complaint about the issue that happened in our class deliberately…

So then, Our AD called our whole branch department faculty and gave severe warning against the issue that to not to harass the students like the way you wanted to… The whole staff was flabbergasted… They started to ask a few students who were the ones who gave complaints against us and all and all… And finally, it’s my own F**king classmates who told the staff members that it was our own CR who gave a complaint against you…

So the point here is what I’m trying to say is… Even though you do good for others it sometimes backfires on you and of course, I do agree with my own fucking mistake that I did not Intimate to our in-charge in the first place…

Then there comes the real harassment from the faculty to me directly… As their Egos are severely hurt they started to take revenge on me by pointing me out in every instance which happened in the class… and of course in the labs too… It’s way too absurd… 💔

And quite a few months later… there was my friend whom I trusted so blindly… He’s one of my seniors who used to treat me so well like his very own brother… And this guy is very close to the Sir whom I’ve complained about…

How will anyone speak with their near and dear ones about the one who hates them the most…??? We tend to use Cuss words n scold them with whatever words we wanted to use right…! So did I do the same & explained the same with my so-called senior friend in the phone call… Whereas that So Called MF, BC & MC has kept the conference with that sir itself while I’m saying all these with him and the sir has recorded the whole conversation which happened between me and the Senior which I’ve come to know later on…

And one fine day The Sir called me and I went to meet him… By wishing him warmly to get a good impression at least so that I can save some of my Lab Internal marks…

{Me:- Hello sir… Good afternoon…! (acted very formally with him as if nothing had happened… )

Sir:- Hey Victor come… What is the opinion of the students about me and the Impression they’ve on me??

Me:- Everyone has a very good impression of you sir and some sugar-coating words which I don’t mean…

Sir:- Tell me about the friendly relationship between You & Ur senior…

Me:- He’s like my brother sir and I share quite a lot of things with him anytime…

Sir:- Could you tell me what kind of things & issues you share with your senior friend…

Me:- Anything sir… There’s no hesitation in saying anything, sir…

A FEW MOMENTS LATER… Sir Blasted A Nuclear bomb By showing me The Recorded conference call which I had with my senior friend speaking about the sir in particular…

Sir:- Is this voice yours or anyone else??

Me:- Yes sir it was mine only and not anyone’s I said Openly

Sir:- Well okay… prepare well for Your internal Lab Examination… and Please go now…

Me:- With a shocked face and Mini heart-attack said Okay sir… and Left the Staffroom }

Sir has shown that recording to every respected branch faculty member and I just lost all the Fame, Impression, and Reputation which I gained.

With a heart full of sorrow and anger towards the senior… I have no words to express The situation that I experienced… I came to a standstill and my mind was totally blocked and left blank…

The lesson I learned here is that

“WHEN YOU TRUST SOMEONE SO BLINDLY AND THAT SOMEONE PROVES YOU THAT YOU ARE REALLY BLIND”

And I was a Dumb again spoke with that Bloody MC senior when he came to my home as he apologized to me… and he told me that “Sir is planning to fail you in Internals…” Then again radically I said “Let whatever the Fuck he wanted to do and I will proceed legally if anything happens severely…” and that MF again called Sir and told him that “Victor wants to file a legal complaint against you if you fail him in labs blah blah blah….”

And the next day when I went to college… Sir again called me and took me To the Principal’s Office, then to the Assistant director’s Office, and Then to College Chairman… and negatively portrayed me for all the shit I made… Our chairman sir used to have tremendous Respect towards me for the way I used to organize events, programs, etc, and… He used to wish me “Good Morning” initially whenever I meet him…

And the lesson I learned here is…

“WHEN YOU DON’T LEARN FROM YOUR PREVIOUS MISTAKES… LIFE HAS A TERRIFIC WAY TO TEACH YOU IT AGAIN & AGAIN UNTIL YOU LEARN IT AND MOVE ON…”

‘The problem with helping a friend in need is that he/she will keep coming back for help again and again.” I am more scared of a friend than an enemy because u will never know when a friend can turn into an enemy. Friends are those who will stab u from the back when u are busy looking at the enemy in front,

Take ye heed every one of his friends, and trust ye not in any brother: for every brother will utterly supplant, and every friend will walk with slanders. And they will deceive every one his neighbor, and will not speak the truth: they have taught their tongue to speak lies, and weary themselves to commit iniquity.! Jeremiah 9:4-5 (KJV)

Those who are trying to analyze the above Phrase lemme Explain it to you here with better clarity in a simplistic way… “Beware of your friends; do not trust anyone in your clan.

For every one of them is a deceiver, and every friend a slanderer. Friend deceives friend, and no one speaks the truth. They have taught their tongues to lie; they weary themselves with sinning.” Jeremiah 9:4-5

Just like how BRUTUS stabbed his friend Julius Caesar, And Shri: Jayalalitha being backstabbed by Sasikala… There are N no of cases like this…

With a friend, ur guard is down and u become weak and with an enemy, u will b careful and remain strong..so it’s better to have enemies than friends

I so love this tweet from Maverick Film Maker RGV and the tweet goes like this

Thousands of instances where Friends betraying friends and No one instance of Enemies betraying enemies which means enemies are working better than Friends… ~RGV

Am super sure everyone has heard people saying… “My friend betrayed me… My friend broke my trust… My heart was broken because of my very near and dear friend” etc etc etc… right… But have you ever heard someone saying “My Enemy betrayed me???” NO right… That’s because you make friends for Granted… and That’s where Everything is going to Literally Fuck you up mentally and Emotionally… Mental Illness caused due to betrayal is 10,000 times more than any physical pain…

Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide; keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom. Micah 7:5 (KJV)

Which means “ Put no trust in your Friend; have no confidence in a Best-friend; guard the doors of your mouth from her who lies in your arms; MICAH 7:5

Adding that having enemies is better than friends, “Enemies keep u alert while friends make u complacent.” A friend is many many times actually a pain in the back…Anyway Happy Friendship Day to all those Keekos, who need friends…I don’t.” “I really wish that there were a Happy Enemies day too cos I think most people will have more enemies than friends.” “Enemies are the ones who motivate u to raise above & friends are the ones who keep pulling u down with false advice.” “Enemies hate & friends are jealous… Jealousy is more dangerous because u can try to defend against hatred but jealousy will attack from behind,

Friendship Day for sure is a day when every friend of yours lies about how much of a friend he is to you.

Ps:

1. As said in starting This article is based on true incidents which happened in my life over some time…

2. My intention in writing this article is because to make y’all alert with your Bestfriends so that you won’t have regrets or betrayals like me…

3. Even after reading the whole article if you still understand and realize the repercussions of having friends… Am super sure even God can’t save you from the eventual sorrow which you are invited to by having Friendly Relations with someone…

4. Prevention is better than cure💔

5. I ain’t Generalising anything to anyone… but just speaking about the Probabilities of Getting hurt 10000% for sure…

6. Share your views after reading the whole article and you can even share any of your weird experiences like this…

Victorpaul