Dear DAD,
Since childhood, I’ve seen you working so hard to add to the treasure box of our family. I’m so blessed to call you my hardworking, self-built, intellectual father. You love me so much, and I truly respect that. With all my will and power, I try to reciprocate the same love for you, but being less experienced and young, I’m still not as good as you.
You carried me in your warm arms It helped me walk in your big steps, run into your safe hug, and fly on your strong shoulders. I was never the best child, but you’re always the best dad.
I just love the way you Understand me every time I’m just awestruck by the way you dealt with my mental traumatic situation from times ago when I used to feel low. But with your guidelines, I got strengthened, and you showed me the best path to always move ahead in life! You’ve taught me how to deal with people who mistreat you. Your motivation for the Biblical Amendments has an enormous impact on my way of looking at things and dealing with them.
I just want to quote some references from the Bible.
THANK YOU FOR GIVING ALL AT WORK & AT HOME…! COLOSSIANS-3:23
THANK YOU FOR TEACHING US ABOUT GOD! EPHESIANS-6:4
THANK YOU FOR LEADING THE FAMILY IN THE WAYS OF THE LORD! JOSHUA-24:15
THANK YOU FOR HELPING US UP WHEN WE FALL! ECCLESIASTES-4:9-10
Thank you for showing us how to fight hard and finish well! 2-TIMOTHY-4:7
THANK YOU FOR BEING OUR #1 FAN! MARK-10:27
Thank you for making our home the place we want to be! PROVERBS-24:3-4
Thank you for making sure we have everything we need and some of what we want too! MATTHEW-7:9-11
I was well into my 20s when I learned to love my dad for who he is, not for who I thought he should be. He’s always been a good man—a hard worker, volunteer, churchgoer, and encourager. But growing up, I thought I needed more from him—more hugs, more tenderness, more let’s sit down and talk about our feelings. I was angry, compared him to others, and blamed some of my life choices on my perception that he wasn’t “there” enough.
But the truth is, God knew long before we showed up on this earth that we’d be family. He knew that my dad’s strengths and struggles would come together with my own to create a relationship, and it would be a journey, and if we allowed it (which we have!) He would use those things to grow us more and more into the people He created us to be.
Through the years, I’ve come to realize that my dad did the best he could with what he had at the time as a father. And I’ve discovered how deeply he cares for me (quirks and all!) even if he shows it in different ways than I do. In fact, today I can truly say that he is one of my only best friends.
There are all kinds of fathers, and yours may be a whole different story. But there is one thing they all share: no matter what their personalities, gifts, struggles, or circumstances, every one of them is called to live God’s way. And when they do, their families are blessed, communities are strengthened, and a ripple effect of goodness happens in the world.
Our Heavenly Father has much to say about fatherhood:
As a father has compassion for his children, so the Lord has compassion for those who fear him. Psalm 103:13 NIV
When our fathers show compassion, they give us a glimpse into the heart of God. Strong yet tender, deeply understanding, fiercely loyal, and always ready to help us through the toughest of times.
Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4 NIV
Bringing up a child with healthy boundaries and godly discipline is no easy task. But even in the most frustrating moments, a loving father is called to be like Jesus—standing firm in the truth yet grace-filled; never critical and demanding.
The righteous lead blameless lives; blessed are their children after them. Proverbs 20:7 NIV
The actions of a father speak volumes to his children. Even if they can’t articulate it when they’re young, they’re watching and learning. And even if they won’t admit it when they’re older, there’s a strong pull to follow in his footsteps. When a father chooses the right path, his family is blessed.
He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents. Malachi 4:6 NIV
A father’s deep affection offers a sense of security and assurance that nothing else can give. The heart of a child is beautifully designed to respond to that love; it’s a connection strong enough to last a lifetime.
I’m sorry, Dad, for all the lies, stupid excuses, and broken things. I don’t say this often, but I really love you a lot. And one day, I will definitely make you proud… I represent your dad, and I will always make you feel proud!
You never allowed me any night outs. But never did you check my phone… It’s how I learned the difference between being protective and being possessive.
There are a few things that I noticed that you did to me…
No matter what, you sacrifice everything, whether it is sleep, money, or your dreams, for the welfare of me.
You never let any pain or obstacle come over me…
You never demanded anything from me except for my own better future…
You protected me from this narrow-minded society and from bad companies.
You may not be a perfectionist, but still, you gave your best to take care of me.
You suffered from a lot of pain and problems, but you’ll never let me know and worry about it.
You guided me in a way no one else can… More than a father, you always treated me like your best friend forever.
You filled all the blocks of my life by emptying yourself… I adore you for this. You helped me learn to navigate my life.
You know what is right for me according to my age. But for me, as an idiot, I always misunderstood you in most cases and later realized how dumb I was.
From scolding me too, giving me a tight hug. You were always there for me… I’m obliged to you in every way. Thanks for being the Iron Man of my life, Daddy❤️
The way you gave me tremendous freedom to live life the way I wanted to by guiding me in each and every smallest and minute aspect of my life… I never felt shy to talk to you about any instances in my life without hesitation. I always feel words can never do justice to what you mean to me.
You know, they say that the closest relationship to God that a human can have is with their father, as you both work in mysterious ways. You know what in life is going to benefit you the most, but you make sure we learn our lessons first. And, now, I’ve started to believe that Father comes right before God, just like the Letter F comes before G.❤️
Yes, I know that I’m the main reason for all the troubles and trauma that you’re facing right now. And yes, I let you down in recent times so miserably. I’m the reason you apologized to some creepy fellows. I’ve said this many times, and I’m saying it again. I will make you proud one day. I’ll prove myself to be the best and make you proud. I still remember how happy you were when I told u that I got admission to an exchange program at Tampere University in Finland. and recently when I became the Secretary cum event organizer, and social media coordinator of the ISC (International Student Committee).
You showered me with love that I didn’t deserve. Happy 58th Birthday, Darling!
There have been times when I’d look up to you and wish for nothing but to grow up just like you, and when we get old and stable, I mean me. We’d go to your favorite places and chill Together
Love You…!
Your own…
Victor Paul (Victorpaul_Zoomin_)
P.S.: I’m reposting the old article that I wrote three years ago.
